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Posted Wednesday, May 21, 2008 9:38 PM

Senator Kennedy's Illness [call]

melissa harrislacewell

Marc,

I have been wanting to write you all day but I could not find the words. I am truly sad about Senator Kennedy's brain tumor diagnosis.

It took me a while to figure out why I was so sad. After all, he is a man who has led a full and long life. This is not like the Sean Bell murder, where a young man is shot down before he begins to fully live. Kennedy is well loved and well respected. He has helped shape the direction of his country during his lifetime. And he may yet do great things in the time he has left.

Even knowing all this I still feel sad. I thought maybe I was reacting to a growing sense of familiarity. I have been on the Obama-rally circuit and Kennedy has often been there; making impassioned and reasoned arguments for my candidate. Maybe I am feeling jolted because I shared an intimate arena with him and 10,000 other people, but I don't think so.

Maybe it's because the country is reflecting on and remembering the 40th anniversary of Robert Kennedy's assassination. I have read some brilliant and moving work about RFK in the past few weeks. Learning of Senator Kennedy's illness at this moment is especially bitter and difficult.

Then I realized that the diagnosis was hard for me to take because it is my greatest fear. I suspect many of us have a worst-case health scenario that we imagine. Professional athletes probably most fear paralysis. I have an irrational and constant terror of brain cancer. My relationship to my phsycial body is pretty distant and critical, but I am big friends with my mind. I am professor, a writer, let's face it, a nerd, and I want every shred of my right mind until the very end. Senator Kennedy is smart, strategic, astute, funny and quick. I am sad about the possiblity that his cancer may rob him of any part of the astonishing mind that so many have come to respect.

How about you Marc? What was your reaction to the news of Senator Kennedy's illness?

 Melissa

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Posted By: UWorlds1 (May 22, 2008 at 11:35 AM)

My prayers are with Senator Kennedy.  We love you.

uworlds1


Posted By: kid5rivers (May 22, 2008 at 12:42 PM)

While I empathize with the Senator's family at this time, I take some consolation in knowing that he has has a long and most productive life, a life which has positively impacted on many, the world over, though it was one interspersed with many moments of prain and grief. Indeed, such is the common thread which unites us humans, though some, too many, don't seem to view life that way.

I also wish to say that health risks are insurable.

And that the way for you to avoid the fears, such as you mentioned in your own case, is by living your life as though your present inhalation is the last one you'll ever have. Bless!


Posted By: ProfChris (May 22, 2008 at 1:33 PM)

Unless you do nothing but watch Fox News, most normal people in America feel a deep sadness. Even John McCain broke from an interview when he heard the initial report on the hospitalization. May I posit another strange source of tmy sadness? Indeed...a personal, almost selfish angle. It means I, too, am aging and must eventually come to terms with ill health. We grow up with certain icons, heroes, constants--from parents to favorite athletes to TV stars to people like Sen. Kennedy. When they go, it shows how this world isn't full of reassuring constants. It's all about flow, and part of that flow is that we, too, will come to an end, and that's some scary stuff. For now, I'm not frightened. For now, I sad--and not just over this man's waning from center stage in our lives. I'm sad for me too...


Posted By: thevegasstyleguy (May 22, 2008 at 2:03 PM)

NO NO NO! SENATOR KENNEDY LEFT A WOMAN FOR DEAD IN A CAR UNDER THE WATER! HE SWAM AWAY, WENT HOME, GOT HIS FIX IT MEN. WENT BACK TO THE SCENE, FREAKED OUT, SWAM(!) TO HIS PVT BEACH AND DIDNT REPORT THE CRIME UNTIL HIS PEOPLE HAD MET WITH THE POLICE AND ARRANGED FOR HIM TO BE CHARGED WITH LEAVING THE SEEN OF AN ACCIDENT! HE THEN WENT TO MARY JO KOPECHNE'S FUNERAL IN A NECK BRACE BECAUSE OF HIS INJURIES. ONLY PROBLEM WAS THAT REPRTERS HAD SEEN HIM PLAYING FOOTBALL AND FLYING KITES AFTER THE DEATH! DO YOU FLY KITES AFTER YOU HAVE KILLED SOMEONE?

THIS IS THE SAME GUY WHO HELPED HIS PIG OF A NEPHEW TO BEAT A RAPE RAP.

ALSO HE SAID SUPERDELEGATES SHULD VOTE WITH THEIR CONSTITUENTS. WELL, ONCE AGAIN, THE RULES DON'T APPLY TO HIM (OR JOHN KERRY) THEIR STATE MA VOTED FOR CLINTON .

WHAT A CREEP.


Posted By: apca (May 22, 2008 at 2:07 PM)

I am very sad to hear about Senator Kennedy's illness, but he will have he best medical advice, best medical care and best cutting edge treatment there is to offer.

Several years ago, a friend received the same diagnosis as Senator Kennedy's.  The care given was adequate, maybe even good because of medical insurance.  Many people are faced with the same dire health issues without the benefit of the high level of medical care that Senator Kennedy will receive.  


Posted By: cperry (May 22, 2008 at 5:12 PM)

I feel you so bad, it hurts Melissa.

As a brainiac,  I am fearful of brain illnesses and especially mental diease.  I hadn't much thought about Ted Kennedy's illness in the way you examined it, but I'm glad I read your post.  Senator Kennedy shines even in his old age, and I wish him the best.  Now when I think about him I will be a bit more reflective.

thanks


Posted By: BLT (May 22, 2008 at 8:51 PM)

Senator Kennedy's brain tumor forces me to face my own mortality. I, too, have a brain tumor, one that I check by MRI and worry about constantly. My prayers and hopes are that he have a peaceful and serene life - that's because I want the same. I would like to  go to meet my maker with love and courage. I recommend that we all read Thanatopsis.


Posted By: LKH (June 7, 2008 at 5:21 PM)

I'm checking in late but I'm with thevegasstyleguy - He got to live longer than Mary Jo Kopechne.


Posted By: misterb46403 (October 1, 2008 at 12:22 PM)

WOW the Vegasstyleguy has no mercy. He and those who think like him need to remember that only God has the right to judge a persons life He doesn’t know the man only God knows. There may have been many instances in his life and deeds that he committed that have made up for the highly publicized versions of his life circumstances. Who's to know? ... Only God. And he has the gall to be called Vegas style guy... who knows what he has done? But even more ironic... who cares? There is only one response to someone in Kennedy's predicament. That is to hope he fairs well cause there but for the grace of God Go I. But even if you don’t believe in God; please don’t jinx yourself by judging someone else.