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Posted Friday, May 09, 2008 2:07 PM

Thoughts on Black Motherhood

Marc Lamont Hill

Melissa,

As we enter Mother’s Day weekend, I can’t help but thinkabout all of the black mothers who have helped shaped the course of history. Near the top of that list is Claudette Colvin. As you know, Colvin refused to giveup her Montgomery bus seat to a white person nine months before Rosa Parkssparked the boycott. Rather than becoming the posterchild for the modern civilrights movement, however, Colvin has been reduced to a mere footnote in history. Why?Because, as a poor single mother, her profile was incompatible with the“politics of responsibility” that has historically governed black activitywithin the public sphere.

 

While the Colvin story is interesting in its own right, itforces me to think about the broader significance of black motherhood in America.From “welfare queens” to “baby mama drama,” black mothers are consistentlymarked by discourses of pathology, moral condescension, and outright hatred. Rather than being celebrated for struggling against the odds, black women are often criticized for not being able to find or keep the "strong black man" who will allegedly rescue the black community. I'm not trying to be a downer here, but it's hard for me to romanticize this holiday in light of these depressing circumstances.

 

What do you think, Melissa? As a scholarand mother, how do you view the politics of black motherhood?

 

Marc 

 

P.S HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted By: DrewReason (May 9, 2008 at 2:45 PM)

jmho, but  the politics of black motherhood intertwine with politics of Asian motherhood, white motherhood, and Latino motherhood because regardless of race, any woman who has the child of an irresponsible male has a load on her shoulders.    Therefore, women must, by any means necessary, avoid losers, regardless of race.

ps, re: Colvin,  every movement needs its posterchild.  It's an "America's Next Top Model" thing, not a single mom vs working mom, vs. married mom, vs stay at home mom thing.

When children of single parents express rage and hatred against children of two parent families, then something is terribly awry in the city of black folks.

(ie.... a poem about why I hate hillary clinton because she ain't like me b/c she had a mom and a dad is not cause for celebration, it's cause for tears.

envy is a deadly sin.


Posted By: Kinsmankid (May 13, 2008 at 9:30 AM)

I agree with you Marc.  I get tired of seeing black single mothers demonized in the media and in society. Most of the people I know from single-parent homes have turned out to be good people.  I was blessed to be raised in a loving two-parent home, but I know all relationships don't work out like my parents did.  Children are better off in a loving single-parent home than in one where the parents don't get along.