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Posted Monday, April 28, 2008 12:30 AM

Sean Bell Tragedy: What do we do? [Response]

melissa harrislacewell
Marc

I am with you my friend.  Did this ever happen to you in childhood? You are upset about something small and your father says to you, “hush up or I will give you something to cry about.”

That is how I felt this week. I was in the corner licking my wounds about Barack’s loss in PA and the ridiculous media coverage about the working-class, white, male vote that followed when suddenly the Bell verdict really gave me something to cry about. My anger and pain did not make me want to riot; it made me want to withdraw. I called my friend who teaches at a University in Toronto and asked about life north of the border. 

How much more must black communities endure? How many more times must we be told by our political system that our votes don’t count or told by our criminal justice system that our lives are irrelevant? The murder of an innocent, unarmed father by representatives of the State is an act so low and disgusting that any decent nation would punish it swiftly and surely. Now we are reminded that we live in a nation that is often indecent and unjust. 

Marc, I am not sure what we do. We follow the example of Sean Bell’s family who have shown dignity, resolve, hope and love at every moment of this tragedy.  We write to every elected official under whose jurisdiction we fall: mayors, state representatives, congressional representatives, senators and our Presidential candidates. We write them and tell them to publicly condemn this ruling and the violence that preceded it.  We hold informational sessions in our neighborhoods and demand that our police and their leadership show up and answer the community’s questions.  We seek out people running for office at the local and national level and demand to know what they think about the Bell verdict and then hold them accountable on election day.  

We march, we write, we cry, we rage, and then we have to love. We have to love our own black selves because it looks like no one else is going to do it.  We have to love ourselves because each of us is Sean Bell.

Noble prize winning author Toni Morrison gives us this great lesson in her exquisite novel, Beloved,  through the character of Baby Suggs, holy. When faced with the brutality of life in America she tells her people to love themselves.

“She did not tell them to clean up their lives or to go and sin no more. She did not tell them they were the blessed of the earth, its inheriting meek or its glory-bound pure...She told them that the only grace they could have was the grace they could imagine. That if they could not see it, they would not have it...'Here,' she said, 'in this here place, we flesh; flesh that weeps, laughs; flesh that dances on bare feet in grass. Love it. Love it hard. Yonder they do not love your flesh. They despise it. 

They don't love your eyes; they'd just as soon pick 'em out. No more do they love the skin on your back. Yonder they flay it. And O my people they do not love your hands. Those they only use, tie, bind, chop off and leave empty. Love your hands! Raise them up and kiss them. Touch others with them, pat them together, stroke them on your face 'cause they don't love that either. You got to love it, you! 

And, no, they ain't in love with your mouth. Yonder, out there, they will see it broken and break it again. What you say out of it they will not heed. What you scream from it they do not hear. What you put into it to nourish your body they will snatch away and give you leavins instead. No, they don't love your mouth. You got to love it. This is flesh I'm talking about here. Flesh that needs to be loved. Feet that need to rest and to dance; backs that need support; shoulders that need arms, strong arms I'm telling you. And O my people, out yonder, hear me, they do not love your neck unnoosed and straight. So love your neck; put a hand on it, grace it, stroke it and hold it up. And all your inside parts that they'd just as soon slop for hogs, you got to love them. The dark, dark liver - love it, love it, and the beat and beating heart, love that too. More than the eyes or feet. More than your life-holding womb and your life-giving private parts, hear me now, love your heart. For this is the prize.”

Marc, we got to love ourselves.

Melissa 
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Posted By: spiker (April 28, 2008 at 1:26 AM)

If the problem is the culture of the police department then the offended citizens need to change that culture by demanding that the police officer in command of the disctrict be fired.  Not merely reassigned but fire.

Threaten the livelihood of these men and they will begin to change.  Also, demand that all police officers in your locality be black until white police officers can be shown to be adequate to the job.

Government serves the people that has elected it.  Demand that those police officers police you as you see fit.  Document the police department in action with video cameras.  Stop crying about it and do something.


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Posted By: Anonymiss (April 28, 2008 at 9:57 AM)

Spiker said:  Also, demand that all police officers in your locality be black until white police officers can be shown to be adequate to the job.

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The problem here is that one third of the cops was White in the Sean Bell shooting.  I definitely see what you're saying though.

It's been noted by a number of Black men that Black cops level harsher treatments than White cops.  It's as if they're embarrassed by you.  Therefore, cops in general need to build better relationships with Blacks and Latinos.  Everytime these cowardly and/or trigger-happy cops deal with Blacks and Latinos in such inhuman fashion, it just puts another nail in the coffin of our relationship.

I'll never justify the "Stop Snitching" movement but this type of behavior by Sean Bell's shooters always serves as a factor into that movement's rationale.


Posted By: thinkingoutloud (April 28, 2008 at 10:24 AM)

Tucker Carlson call's Jeremiah Wright a "Bafoon" on Morning Joe this morning (4/28).  


Posted By: The Spaniard (April 28, 2008 at 1:31 PM)

Wright is a buffoon...but not for the reasons Carlson (who happens to be a buffoon of the highest order)  is saying.

Wright need to play the background and chill for a few months...or go relex in his 1.6 million dollar retirement house.

No matter how "well intentioned" he is...he's not helping anyone (but McCain).


Posted By: The Spaniard (April 28, 2008 at 1:35 PM)

How is it that these officers who, at the very least, are incompetent get to keep their jobs?

This is ridiculous...but, as a whole, we won't do anything but complain and go back to playing our playstation 3s and watching the NLF draft/NBA playoffs..or whatever other diversions from our fellow man happens to be popular with us.  

I'm guilty of it too...in these types of cases I need a leader to orginize the march and/or civil disobedience...I'm to apathetic to get it started myself.

If you get it started though...I'll work hard for you.  Similar to Pippen and Mike.


Posted By: fsilber (April 28, 2008 at 2:07 PM)

NYC has 10 million people and 40,000 cops.  Maybe NYC should be divided into fifty back-to-back medium-size towns of 200,000 people each, with an 800 police force in each town..  That way, when something like this happens, each of those towns (including the one where it happened) can say, "That sort of thing almost never happens here."

Then we can be more objective about the threat posed by anti-black police, versus say, the threat posed by criminals.


Posted By: indiansummer (April 29, 2008 at 12:41 PM)

It's 4 o'clock in the morning in the big city. Young men leaving a strip joint. Add alcohol, drugs, tiredness, trash talk, bachelor party, undercover police. Stop. Show some ID. He might have a gun. Who said what? That one over there said he had a gun. Which one? They're going to that car. Talk to them. Who said they bought some drugs? Stop. Show some ID! They're leaving. They hit one of the officers with the car! Officer down! Stop or I'll shoot!! They've hit the other car. One of them looks like he has a gun! Bam bam bam!! Have we seen this movie before???

Calm yourself dear citizens of the big city and let's look at the crime film over again in slow motion and we can then tell the referee if he made the right call just like in real life.


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Posted By: Angry1 (April 29, 2008 at 5:42 PM)

Melissa,

Your writing is elegant and moving. However misguided it may be. Both you and Marc speak to healing? Marc's first response was the correct one. It is not a question of whether to fight but how to fight. Riots would only serve the rioting group if they rioted in the areas(neighborhoods/business districts) of the the attackers (oppressors).

There is no doubt in my mind that we need more love in the "Black" community we also are in need of more intellectual warriors. Individuals who can devise long term strategy for waging the war we are in. We are in a war against an ever shifting/changing enemy. We must cease looking at these incidents as individual occurences and begin to map out a strategy for return engagement. This latest incident is just one in a long standing attack. Yes justice for Sean and his family are of prime importance as is ensuring that this ceases to happen to us in perpetuity.


Posted By: Cobb (May 1, 2008 at 3:43 PM)

You don't have to love yourself. You have to police yourself.