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Posted Tuesday, August 26, 2008 9:42 AM

Michelle Obama: The Working-Class Girl Next Door

Keith Josef Adkins

 

Michelle Obama
 
Like many, I was glued to my seat as Michelle Obama wooed America with her poignant testimonies in Denver yesterday.  From her protective big brother to her determined albeit physically-challenged father to the intelligence of her daughters to the very wide scope and hope Barack has for our nation, Mrs. Obama unwavered.  There appears to be nothing about her dishonest. She is truth, integrity, faith, hard-work in its purest American sense.  When I see Michelle I see real talk, real people cloaked in an Ivy Education and designer threads.  But hey, anything to deliver the message.  Right? 

I thought of my mother and grandmothers during Michelle's speech.  Hard-working women who believed in justice and personal freedom without a doubt.  But they're long gone, as they say, and were unable to take pride in seeing a woman of African-descent, a potential First Lady, gracefully articulate what ties us together as a country.  And what's that?  Hard work and that right to achieve whatever we wish to achieve and to articulate who we are without apology and STILL, I say, STILL able to stand, live and work next to each other under the same star-spangled flag.  Now that's my kind of America.  Michelle's America.

But I have to admit something.  I was intrigued by something else during the speech.  Well, actually, after the speech.  It was when Barack appeared on screen and waved and thanked and then said, Let's give a hand to Michelle Obama. "You see why I asked her out so many times?" Yes, that.  I do understand.  What's more attractive than a woman who's smart, grounded in her own beliefs, hard-working, offers real talk and possesses a large passion for political and social change?  This is not to say Michelle was obviously wife-material. [Meaning:  women who possess high-end qualities like Michelle aren't brought to earth to sit on a shelf primed and ready for wife-picking.  Meaning:  she has individual purpose.  And if you're lucky to catch up with her, and if she'll even give you the time of day, count your blessings].  No, Michelle is far from a Stepford Wife.  She's the kind of person, if you're smart, you'd try to snatch up to be an equal partner in any worthy partnership.  

Thanks Michelle! 

 

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Posted By: miss lauren (August 26, 2008 at 2:01 PM)

Too Right!


Posted By: gwsulapas (August 26, 2008 at 4:46 PM)

Was that a complaint or complement, damn! White working class people say the Obamas don't

share their values, now we have someone questioning Baracks taste in women. Every brother I

know would love to find a sister with Michelles qualities. Just as every sister looks for a man of

Baracks qualities. When we, as Black people do all the things that White Americans tell us we need

to do too succeed in this country, we get told we are not qualified, can anyone truly say president

Bush was qualified, to lead this country?  


Posted By: Keith Josef Adkins (August 26, 2008 at 4:58 PM)

GWSULAPAS... Woa woa!

Complaint? I'm curious, where in my post did you sense I was questioning Barack's taste?

This has me baffled. Wow. I thought I was pouring it on TOO thick.


Posted By: Naijagirl (August 26, 2008 at 9:40 PM)

Keith,

Well said.  I was eager to read your post regarding Ms. Michelle's  (yes, she has earned the suffix!)  speech. I thought she was absolutely brilliant. As I listened to her, I also thought of my mother and grandmothers and the sacrifices they made for me to achieve what I have today. As a person of African descent, as a woman, as a professional, as a daughter, I was and remain filled with pride, and I hope to one day be the kind of mother that Ms. Michelle seems to be. Her speech was inspirational and should be shown to young black women everywhere, not just in the US.


Posted By: rebeccawalker (August 26, 2008 at 10:00 PM)

Great post, Keith. I wept while watching the speech. So proud of her, of all of us. xo


Posted By: blessinggirl (August 26, 2008 at 11:23 PM)

She was fabulous, beautiful, poised and real.  Thank you for recognizing the obvious.  We black women are used to being either invisible or deemed "strong" or "angry."  We are women, and I, too, cried because I never thought I'd see this in my lifetime.


Posted By: duafeny (August 26, 2008 at 11:39 PM)

So, I am reading this entry and I am like, "Yeah Keith, you on the ball." I read some more and I am totally into it and then, bam (!), " This is not to say Michelle was obviously wife-material." Huh? What do you mean by that?  


Posted By: Koli tengela (August 27, 2008 at 5:09 AM)

Great aand galvanising  speech !


Posted By: Keith Josef Adkins (August 27, 2008 at 7:43 AM)

DUAFENY.  

The "this is not to say Michelle was obviously  wife-material" line was my effort to be CLEAR that women who possess great qualities like Michelle, well, that their purpose in life isn't to sit around on shelf until some guy decides, Hey, there she is.  All primed and ready for wife picking.

My CLEAR attempt may have failed.

I think I may change it. Thanks.


Posted By: ch555x (August 27, 2008 at 8:16 AM)

I need a woman similar or equal to the qualities of MO...


Posted By: cperry (August 27, 2008 at 12:32 PM)

Keith, not many people do this blog thing so effortlessly!

Of course I was deeply motivated by my First Lady's speech.  However, some senator (I wish I knew who he was) mentioned something I can't forget during his commentary on faux news after her speech.  He said something like, Michelle's view on America placed too much of a burden on the government to uplift the people and not enough focus on his idea of pull-yourself-up-by-the-bootstraps.  

He was very Horatio Alger Jr-ish in his assesment on Michelle's beliefs in empowering people through public policy.  I felt like he was insinuating very very slyly that the Obama's "Yes We Can" doesn't hold the people accountable or even that Blk people expect/desire too much help from the government.

Do yall think that the Obama's and Democratic party's message of protect the people (healthcare, economic growth, environmentalism etc.) will push the independents away?  Are we too LEFT to win this?


Posted By: Folic Pollen (August 27, 2008 at 12:34 PM)

Actually, I thought that remark by her husband was inappropiate. Is there somthing else he could have said ? Don't get me wrong, I loved the speech and thought she did a wonderful job, and I'm sure she makes a wonderful wife for Barack, but all the personal references to their relationship left me a little dry. I was more interested in political content than romantic references to their relationship and personal hardship that their families had to overcome.


Posted By: fritz (August 27, 2008 at 1:58 PM)

Folic Pollen::

Get over yourself!!!


Posted By: tippyzzz (August 27, 2008 at 7:20 PM)

I think Michelle is a superstar.  She's smart, beautiful, classy, elegant and confident.  She is a fully formed individual of great accomplishment who happens to be married to another fully formed individual of great accomplishment.  That has been a rare quality to find in recent first ladies (including Hillary).  And, while I've never had self esteem issues and will always be proud of my community, she makes me so proud of my beautiful dark brown skin.  


Posted By: duafeny (August 27, 2008 at 8:07 PM)

Thanks for the clarification, Keith.


Posted By: lap0121 (August 30, 2008 at 1:58 PM)

Thank you so much for your assessment of Mrs. Obama's attractiveness.  It is comforting to know that there are men who understand the beauty and value of an intelligent, accomplished, and confident woman.  Too often men find these qualities intimidating and spend more time attempting to belittle rather than embracing women like Mrs. Obama.  Reading your post reminds that somewhere, in some remote area, there still exists men who, like Obama, are proud to have a companion that shines like Mrs. Michelle Obama.  I love her and believe that she will be an exemplary First Lady!


Posted By: Ania (September 4, 2008 at 8:37 PM)

stop bagging about this woman. and stop calling your selves AFRICAN AMERICANS. If born here you are not from Africa. If you do not like the country than leave.


Posted By: richarville (September 17, 2008 at 9:53 PM)

To Ania:

We call ourselves African-Americans because that's where are roots are from, and BTW,we can  call ourselves whatever the hell we want. I don't know why you have such a PROBLEM with it. ALL of us came from somewhere else, we're not the original inhabitnats of this country. Nobody has said one damn thing abut not liking this country, so what the hell are you talking abut?  FYI, I'm a beginning community activist, and if I see something wrong with this country, I'm gonna do something about it, I don't have to leave just because I or somebody else finds something wrong with it. NO country is perfect, not even this one. I'm tired of hearing that  " if you don't love this country, go someplace else" BS--this is MY country,too, and I'm staying here. It's big enough for any of us to calourselves what we want. It you don't like that, YOU LEAVE AND GET OUT THEN!